A summer of challenges and pleasures is ending and I'm surprisingly ok with it.
Read More →For the men in our lives who recognize their contribution to a struggling relationship, and who are ready to start doing the work for the relationship and for themselves.
Read More →How I learned that focusing on the function of the trip (and actually letting go of everything else) was the magic I have been looking for
Read More →Exploring Skagit, learning by being in front of new things and new people. It's not a day off of work, it's learning something valuable, but somewhere besides the usual places we learn.
Read More →I used to think midlife was the beginning of decline. Midlife didn’t bum me out particularly, and I was always hopeful that I would beat the curve and remain healthier than my mom and grandmother. But the decline was out there, it was dreaded, and it definitely began around midlife.
Read More →When I read Ada Calhoun’s book describing the state of the Gen X woman at midlife, I was quite distressed. There was something about being so deeply seen, the solidarity of realizing I wasn’t alone, and the depressing truth that my lifetime dream of “having it all” was basically debunked. It was overwhelming.
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